So, shortly after my last post we made a very unpleasant discovery about our rental house that we moved into in July. I'd been getting nasty blistered bug bites starting a couple weeks after we moved here and we thought it was just mosquitoes or some nasty flies. It wasn't. What it turned out to be, we discovered after we sprayed for possible fleas, was bedbugs. Yep. Bedbugs. Is your skin crawling at the idea? Mine is too. Even now, knowing the house has been sprayed, my skin still crawls.
If you're wondering just what about yucky bedbugs have to do with my life being turned upside down, let me explain. Those blistered bug bites were an allergic reaction to the bugs, which considering I'm allergic to other kinds of bugs and lots of other things (plants, animals, dust, etc.), isn't really all that surprising. Unpleasant and annoying, but not surprising. Most people their story with bedbugs would end as soon as you get the house sprayed. Unfortunately, its extremely expensive to spray for bedbugs when a house is inhabited because all of the furniture and personal belongings of the people need to be sprayed too. Our landlord balked at the price, offered to try DIY bedbug remedies, but eventually agreed to the professionals doing it so that C would have a minimum of upset now that he's settling in.
The day came for the first spraying and we stayed out as long as they told us, plus a couple extra hours so by all rights everything should have been fine. After being home for less than an hour I noticed an odd burning sensation on my face by my mouth and over the next 3 hours it continued to spread up my face to my eyes, ears and throat. It got uncomfortable for me to swallow, and was starting to get difficult to breathe when finally L and my mother convinced me it was time to go to the ER. Turns out I was having an allergic reaction to the spray that was used to kill the bugs I was having an allergic reaction to...
We slept at L's office that night and then the next morning we called the exterminator to find out just what was going on with me and what we should do. His suggestion: get a lawyer and stay out of the house. When we asked how long it would take for the chemicals I was having a reaction to to wear off he told us three months after each treatment. Because of the level of infestation in our house (apparently for over a year before we moved in, unknown to the landlord because the last tenants were just awful) we were going to need three treatments with the last one being a month and a half after the first one. If I've confused you and you're trying to do the math for just how long this means I'm supposed to stay out of the house it is going to end up being about 4.5 months from the first treatment until I'm able to move back in.
So for the past week I've been living in a tent in the backyard, only running into the house long enough to use the bathroom and to shower when absolutely necessary. I can't cook for my family, can't tuck my kids into bed, can't snuggle up on the couch with my partner and watch movies (let alone share a bed). Its been a nightmare. My depression is setting in hard being separated from them like I am, and I'm just in the backyard. Because of it being fall and the weather starting to change, even this situation isn't good enough because it gets absolutely frigid at night. Our landlord offered to let us rent a little two bedroom place a few blocks over for cheaper than he'd normally rent it just because its his house that is causing my health issues. Unfortunately even a cheap rental, when you add on utilities, is way more than our budget can stretch to cover. Not to mention I'd be totally separated from the kids and alone except for my dog.
In steps my friend B with an offer for me to stay at her house while we wait for my house to be livable for me again. This will save us hundreds of dollars and I won't be alone, but I'll still be without my kids and my love. My mom has offered to take the kids to school in the mornings so I'll just do pick-ups and then come over to the house and hang out outside during the day. Its going to be hard, but its a better solution than me living outside in bad weather, or living in a house completely alone.
I just can't wait until my life is back to normal. I didn't move 1600 miles to be separated from my family.